Posted on February 23, 2022 under Wednesday’s Words of Wisdom with no comments yet

 

 

Tom’s final snowshoeing trip to Mt. Washington – January, 2019

 

“And into the forest I go to lose my mind and find my soul.” John Muir

Today’s menu on WWOW features hodge podge, which means that this piece will be all over the map.

By all objective standards, February in Nova Scotia has not been ideal for outdoor activities. The temperature had whipsawed day after day from frigid to mild. Heavy snowfalls were often followed by rain, a big melt, flooding and then flash freezes. This has brought treacherous walking conditions and has made things like cross country skiing and snowshoeing less than pleasant. Those of us old enough to remember, recall winters starting in November and ending in late April with mountains of snow.

Last week, after a heavy snowfall of powdery snow, I was out in our parking lot helping the crew get ready for the arrival of the plow. Some of us clean off all the windows of the vehicles while others shovel snow away from the wheels. Then we wait for the plow and move all the cars out onto the street. It is a carefully choreographed dance.

One of my neighbors opined that it was a perfect day for snowshoeing. I haven’t been on snowshoes in a few years- January of 2019 to be exact.  It was such a spectacular morning that I agreed to go with her to Beaver Mountain Park that afternoon.

I have discovered that there are some things that I can describe without any difficulty. However, when you walk into a forest under brilliant sunshine on a cold, crisp afternoon, with snow caressing the branches, it is almost too much to take in. It is the definition of perfection. We didn’t talk a lot, but we did take breaks occasionally so that the old fellow could catch his breath. Although I’m in pretty good shape from walking 10Km every day this month, snowshoeing is much more strenuous. We both felt a deep sense of gratitude that we were healthy enough (and unemployed enough!) to witness the grandeur of nature.

Less than forty-eight hours later, the conditions changed dramatically. The temperature rose to 11 above with high winds and heavy rains. In order to keep my commitment to walk 10km every day in February, I knew that this wouldn’t be the easiest walk. However, I have discovered that attitude plays a big role in most endeavors. Some of us are very lucky. We have the choice to be happy or miserable. Many are not so fortunate. Physical infirmities, poor mental health, abusive relationships, insecure employment can make it very hard to put on a brave face.

Having done marathon training for years, you can’t let weather dictate your training schedule especially if you have a running partner with the ferocity of a pit bull. I never dared to not show up for a training run in inclement weather.

I looked outside and determined that it would be a warm walk and that I would get wet. Now, I kidded myself by taking an umbrella. Those of you who live on the west coast realize that an umbrella is as essential as oxygen especially at this time of the year. It reminded me of a golf trip I took to Ireland 20 years ago. I was playing at a famous course and on that day, there were hurricane force winds and torrential rain. We were obliged to have a caddy and as we were about to step out into the elements, I started to unfurl my umbrella. The caddy turned to me and said, “Aye, MacDonald. You won’t be needing that today”. It might have been great for Mary Poppins buy futile on a golf course on a day such as this. I have a pretty good memory. After that round of golf, our golf crew boarded our private 12-person passenger van, that came equipped with a driver, to drive to the next destination. We stopped at a liquor outlet and one of the guys went in and purchased a bottle of very expensive Irish whiskey. I had my guitar with me and for the next few hours, the bottle was passed around as I dragged our every Irish song I knew. We managed to find the bottom of that bottle by the time we reached our hotel.

I put on my “positive attitude” face and went out to embrace the elements.

Often, I feel lucky. I am one of the few brave people (nuts) who will willingly go out on such a miserable day. Invariably, I will try and reframe the situation by singing. Once I was suitably wet, I started humming that old Roger Miller classic:

“Walkin’ in the sunshine, sing a little sunshine song,

Put a smile upon your face as if there’s nothing wrong,

Think about forgetting about your worries and your woes,

Walkin’ in the sunshine, sing a little sunshine song.”

La la la la la de ho,

Whether the weather be rain or snow,

Pretending can make it real,

A snowy pasture, a green and grassy field.”

I have always sought out the company of positive people. If you want to find one quickly, just look for people who are inveterate walkers. To a person, these are folks who “accentuate the positive”. They tend to be grateful people who realize how lucky they are to be able to walk. They know that the walk, regardless of the weather, will be good for their physical and mental wellbeing.

Last weekend, I went to Halifax to visit a friend. We decided to get dressed up. Well, at least ONE of us decided to get dressed up. I don’t own many fancy clothes and I thought a kilt in February might not be appropriate. It became crystal clear to me that in the minds of many, Covid was over. I tried to reserve a table at five well known eateries in the city and unless we wanted to dine at 10:00 p.m., there was no room at the inn. I lucked out when I called Il Mercato in Bedford. At the precise moment that I called the restaurant, they had just received a cancellation.

I will spare you with all the mundane details of the meal except to say that the Mercato has excellent tiramisu. I judge a restaurant by the quality of its desserts.The company, food and service were all excellent. What I noticed most, was the unfettered joy in the room. For the first time in two years, things felt normal. The restaurant was very busy, but all current Covid protocols were still in place. With the recent easing of some restrictions in Nova Scotia, capacity limits had been increased. The place was full. There was music playing in the background. Couple were holding hands. There was laughter galore. Someone was having a birthday and we could hear them being serenaded at a distant table. It seemed like every single person in the establishment was smiling with the possible exception of the wait staff. It was difficult to ascertain. They were wearing black masks! I don’t know about you, but I hope to never take dining out for granted again. It felt amazing.

As a sidebar, the hotel where I was staying was completely booked. It took me a while to find a parking spot at the end of the night.

Is it possible that our global nightmare is finally coming to a close?

As many of you know, I have been posting some podcasts recently produced by my talented son, Peter. While the uptake hasn’t set any podcast records, there are many of you that were quite interested and asked us to finish the 10-episode series. Episode 6 was posted on Sunday and is one of my personal favourites. I am frequently asked about the genesis of my Week45 webpage. This episode talks about this along with timeshares and time well spent on Florida’s Gulf Coast. There are some musical clips and lots of great photos, compliments of Pete. Check it out if you have 30 minutes. https://youtu.be/37K1QvVIzs0

I’m in my final week of DryFeb. If you would like to make a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society, I have included the link. Tax receipts are issued. In addition to eschewing the bottle for the month of February, I have been walking to honor the memory of my late brother Tom. As of today, I have walked 250 kilometers with 50km more to go to reach my goal of 300 km.

https://www.dryfeb.ca/users/len-macdonald

Have a great weekend.

P.S. I felt compelled to add this blog post from a man who died recently. He asked his daughter to post it after his death. It is a long read but filled with so much wisdom. While it is tinged with sadness for sure, it is also very inspiring. Lessons for all of us. https://philohara.ca/wp/2022/02/16/last-post/?fbclid=IwAR0jhWNFhr72JvPhcqozE4vxMxCBIYsz9Ze_frFsco0EPt7Pn-2dVIId75Q

Posted on February 16, 2022 under Wednesday’s Words of Wisdom with no comments yet

 

Annie and friend – Kangiqsujuaq, Quebec

 

“And they called it puppy love,

Oh, I guess they’ll never know.

Puppy Love – Paul Anka

Earth to Len. Valentine’s Day is over, tossed to the curb for another 363 days. “Geez, Len. Are you suffering a Valentine’s Day hangover?”

In recent weeks leading up to VD, I waxed poetic about romance including dating guidelines. When did I become an expert on matters of the heart? And why, pray tell, am I continuing on with this theme? The short answer is that I am not talking about love of the human variety today.

“Raise a dog with sheep and it will love sheep.

Raise a dog with goats and it will love goats.

Raise a dog with people… you know the rest.”

Source unknown

“You’re barking up the wrong tree, Len.”

Those of you who know me well might be surprised that I would be writing about dogs. It’s not that I don’t like dogs. It’s just that I haven’t had a lot of experience with four legged creatures other than cats. Yes, our family had a dog when we were kids. Chipper was a “Heinz 57” specimen. While some dogs eat to live, Chipper lived to eat. Watching her waddle to the kitchen table was all the evidence you needed. I often wonder how she became fat. With ten of us around the table fighting for every scrap, it’s a little wonder that Chipper wasn’t skin and bones. Of course, we had liver twice a month so on these days she was certain to overeat.

Truth be told, I was nervous around dogs for the longest time. My edginess was warranted. When I was a youngster, we used to walk over to the Salt Ponds to skate. The confluence of two rivers overflowing their banks in a low-lying area, created the perfect conditions for a large outdoor skating heaven. When we weren’t in school, we spent every waking hour at the Salt Ponds pretending that we were the next Jean Belliveau or Gordie Howe.

In order to access the Salt Ponds, we had to go through one of the neighbor’s yard. On one such occasion, the neighbor’s dog took exception and came running after me baring its teeth. Before I could react, I had a 80 pound mutt hanging from my arse. It took a few of my friends a bit of time to extricate the dog from my rear end. I suffered a bite serious enough for a trip to the hospital. I suffered further indignity by having to drop my drawers and have a nurse poke a large needle into my butt – my first tetanus shot. I finally understood clearly the meaning of a pain in the ass.

With all the running I did on the back roads ten years ago, one would think dog attacks would be common. No, I didn’t carry a stick to ward off an attack. I had the comfort of my running partner. To say that Charlene was (and still is!) a no-nonsense person would be a gross understatement. On one of our runs out in the Ohio, a pit bull came running towards us, with harm in mind. Rather than high tailing it, Charlene faced down her attacker. She let out a string of expletives in a voice loud enough to break the sound barrier. I never saw such a frightened dog in my life. Its tail was between its legs as it made a hasty retreat.

On a few occasions, I have actually done some dog sitting. The first time was in Victoria when I looked after my late brother Tom’s golden retriever. Being a high energy dog, I was expected to walk Oslo twice a day which suited me just fine as I would kill two birds with one stone getting my daily walks. It didn’t take me very long to understand the true meaning of “babe magnet”. Now, in all of my years of running and walking, I have never been stopped by women who wanted to pat me or hand me a treat. It was hard to walk 100 yards before a gaggle of women stopped to worship Oslo. I seriously thought about adding a third walk each day.

Before I went to work in the north, I was cautioned about the preponderance of dogs. They are plentiful and often travel in packs. I’m sure that many a prospective teacher decided not to take a position for that very reason. It made me think about the old Jan and Dean song from 1963: “Two Girls For Every Boy”. In the north it’s more like “Five Dogs For Every Home”. Several of my younger colleagues became smitten with huskies and eagerly went and acquired a pup when news of a new litter spread throughout the community. So taken were they with their furry friends that they took to Facebook and Messenger, sharing every piddle and pee. I referred to their Messenger Page as “Pooch Porn”.

Fast forward to the present, if you consider a week ago the present. I was doing one of my daily 10km walks. I was out in the countryside when a dog came charging at me. Over the years, I changed my strategy when this type of thing happened. Rather than seize up, or worse still run, I stopped and went down on one knee. No, I wasn’t resorting to prayer. I was trying to adopt a non-threatening stance. I put out my hand as the dog approached, whispering sweet nothings to the pooch. He (or she) stopped barking and cautiously approached. The dog never got close enough for me to pet it, but the threat was over. I continued along my merry way.

I was a few hundred yards down the road when, low and behold, who should saunter up beside me but my new best friend. For the next 45 minutes, I had a companion. She (I made an executive decision and decided that it was a she) never came close enough for me to pat her but she was obviously happy to be along for the ride. It was strangely comforting to have a walking mate of the four- footed variety. A light came on. “So, this is one of the reasons people have dogs.” I made the turn to go back home, and the dog walked with me until she was back home. I hope she’s around when I do this route the next time.

So to all you dogs lovers out there, I leave you with this quote from Roger Caras:

“Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.”

Have a great weekend.

P.S. We are not allowed to have animals in our apartment complex which is puzzling. They accepted me!

P.P.S. Catch Episode 6 of the Week45 podcast this Sunday, February 19^th.

Posted on February 9, 2022 under Wednesday’s Words of Wisdom with no comments yet

Frozen Fir

 

“If music be the food of love, play on.”

Twelfth Night – William Shakespeare.

WWOW! A new spelling for “WOW”.

Wednesday’s Words of Wisdom.

This is the inaugural effort for a Wednesday post. After ten years, Monday Morning Musings and Thursday Tidbits decided to take an early retirement package.

When I announced last week that MMM and TT were about to end, one charitable (but misguided!) reader commented that she was looking forward to my mid-week ‘pearls of wisdom’. I assured her that these would be fake pearls. Someone else quipped that they would be ‘cultured’ pearls. I have been accused of many things. Cultured is not one of them.

So, what will I dish up for my first WWOW? Sadly, more of the same hearty goulash that you’ve been consuming for 10 years. A leopard can’t change its spots. Neither can a Leonard.

When all else fails, my fallback position is music.

After listening to one of the most amazing choral renditions of the old Toto tune, “Africa” last week (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-c9-poC5HGw&authuser=0), I commented to a friend that I sure hoped that there’s music in heaven, or in my case, hell! She replied that by all accounts there is music in heaven and that perhaps I would just have to trade in my guitar for a harp. I mentioned to her that several years ago, I took harp lessons until my instructor moved away. I often wondered if it was my playing that drove her to the Elysian Fields. Actually, I think she moved to Wolfville which is paradise to some.

Then our conversation went a little sideways.

My friend suggested that I might be able to charm my way through the Pearly Gates (more pearls of wisdom?), like Orpheus.

There was a time that I was quite interested in Greek Mythology. I can pinpoint it to 1969 when I was a member of our school’s Reach For The Top team. I was invited to be on the team and there were three subjects that I was supposed to be the resident expert: sports, classical music, and Greek Mythology. My contribution to the team was less than stellar as I chronicled in a piece called “Reach For The Bottom”. (https://www.week45.com/reach-for-the-bottom-2/)

I will leave it up to you, dear reader, to check out the story of Orpheus but guys, just remember this: “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”. In the case of Orpheus, he was torn to shreds by the angry women of Thrace. Apparently, he spurned their advances. Well, I certainly hope that I don’t get torn to pieces by a gaggle of angry women because of inattention! Of course, had I continued to play the harp, this may have been the sad outcome.

“I will play for Him on my harp; With my lute and ten-stringed lyre”. Like Cedars They Shall Stand – Dan Schutte

(Note to Len. If you do make it to the Pearly Gates, DO NOT play for Him on your harp.)

I would be remiss if I didn’t make a fleeting reference to romance with Valentine’s Day just a few days away. A few weeks ago, I posted a piece about guidelines for online dating. If you think dating during a pandemic is difficult, consider the case of Elizabet Barrett and Robert Browning.  Barrett and Browning are celebrated for their contribution to English literature and poetry. Against the wishes of her controlling and demanding father, Elizabeth Barrett started to correspond with Browning in secret. Over a period of 20 months, they exchanged 575 letters. This romance is not as celebrated as Romeo and Juliet but for sheer persistence and patience, this couple wrote one of the greatest love stories. (Ed. Note. I’m sure they would have appreciated Messenger and Zoom!)

Earlier on, I mentioned classical music. When I was in the north and had access to Sirius radio, I started off every day by sitting in a lounge chair with a cup of coffee, listening to classical music. I found that this practice had a calming effect which unfortunately was short lived. I remained serene until I entered the doors of the school. Now that I am at home and spend large amounts of time alone in my apartment, I have the luxury of listening to music. I usually have Mozart or Beethoven playing in the background while I do the dishes and make my bed.

Are you worried about getting old? Fear not.

An extensive study in the U.S. found that the most productive age in human life is between 60 to 70 years of age. The second most productive stage of the human being is from 70 to 80 years of age. As many of my readers are in this demographic, let us sing along with Bryan Adams. https://youtu.be/t4vGvh66UkQ

WWOW – Episode 1 is in the books.

Have a great weekend and Happy Valentine’s Day… especially to the women of Thrace!!!

P.S. I am a third of the way through DryFeb. I’ve sworn off booze for the month of February and am raising money for the Canadian Cancer Society. My goal is to raise $1,000 by the end of the month. As of today, I am a third of the way to achieving my fundraising goal. If you would like to make a donation, please check out this link: https://dryfeb.cmail19.com/t/i-l-edlklh-tyuryhujki-oj/

In conjunction with DryFeb, I decided to honor the memory of my late brother Tom who died of cancer two and a half years ago. For thirty days, I am walking 10km a day. Tom is walking with me. As of today, I have completed the first 100km, or one third of my objective. There have been some pretty messy days but compared to cancer, walking in an ice storm is really not so bad.